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In France however, there's no such thing as a dating columnist.I've been a semi-fluent French speaker since my youth, yet trying to share what I did perplexed most French, Belgian and Swiss folks I encountered. My male friends scoffed, my female friends swooned.
"I give advice to people who go out together," kind of worked, but most people didn't understand how or why I had a job. I lost my credit card and was two hours late, so instead we met for wine and cheese. That relationship ended because the gent couldn't communicate clearly with me, and kissed another woman at a party repeatedly knowing that I'd never take him back if he did. I'm still grateful for the experience, because it showed me just what dating was, and wasn't.
Many of my girlfriends are used to the same type of pattern I described earlier when it comes to establishing a relationship…but this guy is really different in that regard.
He wants to just let things flow, not sleep with other people but still spend time with others…and allow the commitment and love to develop over time, eventually (after a year or so) stopping hanging out with others.
I told him that, he again said he couldn’t do more…and we ended late August.
I spent September trying to get him out of my mind, to no avail.
"I learned a lot while in Ireland (and France, Belgium) about romance and relationships, and you can read all about my adventures elsewhere (see: What Does Shifting Mean in Irish Slang, and Dating in Ireland).
First, I had to come up with a way to describe what I do for a living.I'm her, but she wrote for the Post and I wrote for the Times".People nod, and then ask me whatever pressing dating questions they have.Does the route this guy takes (sllllooowly developing the commitment rather than deliberately deciding on the commitment) seem familiar to anyone?If so, how has it worked (or not worked) for you to be with someone more comfortable with a linear method to developing relationships? At what point (time-wise) is it reasonable to expect someone to be able to discuss a commitment?