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She got hold of him through an acquaintance, who at the time was also dating a convicted felon.
Inmates like to write letters to women for two reasons: they are bored, and to recruit more people to their cause. Back then he thought nothing of her 'cause he never noticed her... Some girls will take the jailhouse romance for what it is - silly letters to make them feel good - and that's where the relationship will rest; but other girls will lose their heads altogether, and that's when it gets ugly. A woman I know, let's call her Sandy, was trapped in a loveless marriage with a violent alcoholic. Nobody would have blamed her if she divorced him and went on her way (yet again).Still, no harm would have been done if love letters were all that was ever going to happen. Sandy's hubby, a sad and moronic creature to be sure, had somehow, despite his pervasive alcoholic haze, gathered enough wits about him to take legal action to recover his children.But things took a more serious turn when the feller was let out. After a bit of a to and fro, the courts decided that Sandy must return the children to their rightful home as her place was judged to be an unsafe and unstable environment.The upshot of the romance was the loss of her children, her teeth and her credit rating. Everyone but Sandy saw it coming but were powerless to stop it.Yes, Sandy was now twelve thousand bucks in debt despite having a full-time job because, while Sandy worked hard to make ends meet, her happily unemployed convicted felon had been busy gambling her money to relieve the boredom he felt at home. Two years later Sandy admits that moving in with a newly released inmate wasn't the cleverest thing she ever did but it wasn't the stupidest either.So, what can one say about this sad end to this very sad story? The most irresponsible decision was to let this crazy dude near her children. But just recently, when this situation was rehashed (yet again) Sandy was asked by a curious friend what it was that drew her to the inmate to begin with, as none of us could see it.
Having regained her senses, Sandy realized she had put the kids at risk, just by allowing this fellow near them. To this Sandy replied that she thought that he was handsome.And why was this man so reasonable, I hear you ask? We could take a guess and speculate why this wronged man chose to be so uncharacteristically level-headed after what Sandy had put him through, but it would do us no good. Maybe he was planning an elaborate and horrible revenge. But I prefer to give him the benefit of the doubt, and give credit where credit's due.Sandy's hubby chose to end the feud simply because he had the kids' best interests in mind.I suspect it doesn't take much to be 'in a relationship' with a prisoner, so it's really a quick fix to fill the void, so to speak, while you're searching for other options on the 'outside'.Let's face it; Inmates have time to work out and women find a good body attractive especially if, in real life, these girls haven't had the opportunity to lay their hands on someone good-looking.It got a bit heated and s**t went down, as Sandy put it, reluctantly admitting defeat from her hospital bed where she landed after the trailer went up in smoke and the inmate was hauled off to the watch house.